What is Bullying?
Bullying is indeed the rising crime our world is facing right now. It is a crime where few are being convicted but seriously destroying humanities but what can we do to stop it? Or perhaps defeat it? Whether you are being bullied through your race, complexion, age or appearance you have the choice to fight it and if you choose to stand by what you believe bullies will never exists.
Bullying is a behavior where a person is using superior strength or power to control other people.
Forms of bullying:
It could be Physical bullying, Verbal bullying, Social bullying, Cyber bullying.
Things to do to defeat Bullying:
Mind what you do. If ever you get bullied, never ever do the same as it won’t make it right. Remember: You can’t stop bullying if you will become one of them.
Talk Safety. Talk to the person, warn and give chance. That will give the impression that you are capable on standing on what you know is right.
Give Options. This time if bullying still continues, lay options, inform him what you will do and what will happen, it will give him time to re-think what he’s doing.
Talk to an Expert. If none of the above works, this is the time you need back up, talk to an adult or anyone who has authority to make the bully stop what he is doing.
The Do’s of Bullying:
Never ever surrender. If you quit just because you are being bullied, then you give them reason to continue whatever they are doing as they can see it in you that “they are superior” than anyone else.
Be understanding. Understand that every one of us is different and that we have different ways to use to cope on our frustrations and issues in life.
Be an instrument. The change can start in you, keep on encouraging others positively.
Stay happy. When you continue on being happy, it will make no sense to them and the walls of their kingdom will come crushing at their very own face which will make them realize that you, the bullies and everyone else is the equally made with our differences.
Be a friend. Bullies are after all humans, there is surely a reason why they react that way and if they can see that they can trust you and that you can keep whatever their darkest secrets they will learn on how to treasure everyone else just like how they treasure their selves.
Positive thinking leads to open mind and open mind brings out the best on each one of us which can make the world the safest place on we can ever be.
Written by: "Logan"